If you have been reading this blog for a while, you probably know that I am a vocal advocate for people forming "survival committees" of...

Typically, I write this blog for the litigants, but this post is for the litigators. Being a family law lawyer is a challenging endeavor....

Can you recite the pledge of allegiance? Could you do it while you were driving? Could you do it while doing a math problem? Could you do...

"Oh, she's willing to negotiate, but she won't tell you anything about her assets or income until you agree to the parenting plan she...

It is not uncommon for someone to come into my office for an initial divorce consultation with a spreadsheet containing a proposed...

A dear friend of mine defines maturity in people as "a deep ability to connect present actions to future outcomes." I generally agree...

A common mistake made by clients (and Courts) is adoption of a "one size fits all" attitude for parenting plans. The reality of parenting...

Tragically, domestic violence is a frequent part of family law proceedings. Many victims of domestic violence think, "I should get a...

One of the most common scenarios in my family law practice: A client comes in for a consultation on a divorce. In the course of the...

Once the lawyers and judges have made their way out of your life, you are left with the often challenging job of co-parenting. If there...

This blog is the first entry in the "Practitioner's Corner" series, where I discuss recent developments in Washington case law that...

Your co-parent's residential time with the child starts tomorrow morning at 10:00 a.m. In the parenting plan, it's your job to get the...

I first encountered this phenomenon with my own child. When he was little, my wife and I were struggling with potty training. My son was...

There are several things in life you likely learned from your family - how to cook, how to drive, how to act at work... the list goes on...

Brene Brown shares a great story in one of her TED talks about a father who came with his daughters to a book-signing she was doing. As...

"Want to turn an easy divorce into a hard divorce? Date someone while the divorce hasn't been finalized yet. Want to make it really hard?...

Often, when clients and I are preparing the initial paperwork for a divorce, there is major agonizing over the phrasing of the cover...

Sometimes, my clients want to avoid legal conflicts because they would be difficult or costly. I certainly understand that, and sometimes...

The Guest Blog this week comes from Deno Millikan, PLLC partner Joel Nichols, whose employment law expertise has been highly sought after...

There is a tactic in family law litigation that I jokingly call the "Spaghetti strategy." This consists of a party coming up with every...